There are people who are always pushing themselves too hard, perhaps because their work has created their personality. No matter what they do, they suffer.

The more they seek fairness in everything, the harder they become on themselves.

But you don’t have to blame yourself too much. Here’s how to take it out.

Stop doing everything yourself


There is no tunnel without an exit. People who work hard carry everything by themselves. They can take a day off, but they work. A lot of tasks and troubles tend to focus on you because you are very capable.

The attitude to work seriously is wonderful, but the style that only you wear out will only cause a loss. You should get out of the system where you lose.

No matter how low your self-confidence and self-esteem is, learn to rely more on others. You don’t have to do everything yourself even if the project has no end in sight. You are never alone in your life.

Prepare an escape route


When you are trying to solve a problem, whether it is at work or anywhere else, you should not proceed in a direction that will only hurt you. It’s great that you’re doing your best to get things right, but if things don’t work out, think about alternatives and other ways to get around.

Seek a balance of self-preservation rather than being a perfectionist. Stop push yourself too hard.

Don’t put yourself in a situation where you can’t win. Hard work should be rewarded. Focus on taking care of yourself and get out of a helpless world.

Accept your happiness

It is important to create an attitude of accepting happiness instead of just doing things. Then you can change yourself from a position where you always lose.

In order to be rewarded, you need to be able to afford to accept it. Do what you can to get your share of the win.

Somebody doesn’t always set you up for happiness. You are the one who brings you happiness. Every day might be bright.

You don’t have to push yourself too much.


If you look at it in the long run, living may be dealing with many things. No matter what the situation is, there’s always an answer. you can choose the right one.

The only thing we can be sure of is that we don’t live in a world where bad things happen one after the other.

There is no rain that never stops. Don’t get yourself into trouble.